Self-Help Series (7)

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We, perhaps, wonder why we often come across some tough problems and why there are some issues in our lives that seemingly they could not be solved, let alone it could be running for such a long time without any hope to resolve them. Yet sometimes we can't understand them at all. There are possibly many things in life that we are not able to figure out. We probably may say that life is a mystery. Thus, those things could inevitably drive us crazy and we might feel blank from time to time; “what was going on with me”? In other words, we do not know what to do anymore, and how to deal with it.

Having said so, the effects might be considerably critical. At the early stages, it may bring us feeling so lonely and worried as well as followed by feeling stressed out excessively. And the worst of it, we could suffer from continually depression, or even it may lead us to a decision to commit suicide! What is to say? Indeed, because it is dealing with a human being, it would not be easy as a piece of cake. But remember, never put off to fix these matters as soon as possible because the small problems could become bigger problems as time goes on, which we often could not be able to cope with them after all.  

Here is the thing that might be of help: The first and foremost key in order to understand and to recognise our life, and how to take in hand our problems as well as to take control our lives subsequently is that as humans, always ask what exactly THE PURPOSE WE ARE BORN IN THIS LIFE IS; why do we exist in this world? I guess we already know the answers. If not, we could sit and take time to reflect so that we would truly have a clear insight of our 'core obligation' in this life. Hopefully, this could eventually make us feel relief and regain our strengths to live the life contentedly and gratefully…* (WONN)

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