Self-Help Series (3)

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We probably always think or even believe that all problems we encounter in life are set up to be our destiny, which could not be changed at all; or those are our fates that we have to accept without questioning them. As a result, we may feel those problems as ‘curses’ and that our life might turn into 'jail' (forever?), where we feel like there are no restful and tranquil places to live in anymore. Furthermore, it is quite difficult to put our heart at ease. Can you imagine that? How hard it would be.

So, first of all, let us think that there are likely reasons behind our problems. Now, what we could do is that to find out what is the reason? It may come from our sins. Besides, just to remember that every person would be responsible for all his/her acts in life (good deeds or bad deeds). It would be wise if we never blame it to others of what have been happening to us. That is our own concern to sort it out.

Having said so, it is worth to always be positive to view our problems. Also, it would be an advantage if we could see everything from different perspectives from now on. Having positive thinking would be more effective to have good effects in our body, mind, and soul than having negative thinking. It is likely to reach no less than 70% positive results or even more when what we think turns to be the positive thinking. Indeed, it is huge impact! Nevertheless, it can boost our positive energy to work out powerfully. In other words, not only is it a method to get relaxation that we need, but also it is a technique to prevent and even to recover from frustration or depression that bothers us.

So, it is easy, right? Just BE POSITIVE!* (WONN)

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